Over the summer, we've seen so many of our friends and family go through various life events, including buying houses and having children. We are genuinely happy for them. We know some of their stories, and the hard work and grace it took to get to where they are today, and we are so proud … Continue reading what about me?
I am blessed to say that I have great friends that just happen to be guys. But for some reason, that seems to be an enigma in our Christian culture. How can you be friends with someone of the opposite gender? If you're married, can you even have friends besides your spouse? After doing research (I'll post … Continue reading friends, brothers, or potential threats? how to deal with the opposite gender
We all need a reminder that our spouses are from God, ordained by God to walk through life with us and share in our ups and downs. We need to make time to appreciate what our spouses do on a regular basis, as thanks to God for blessing us with our life partners.
How much attention do you give to your marriage? Is your marriage high on your priority list? Like a child requires constant attention and a change of schedule, you need to make time for your marriage, and make time for the man or woman who matters most to you.
Before I met my husband, I believed that my husband would cure my anxiety. For those who are single and waiting for a man to fix you, read this carefully: Marriage does not fix you. Only God can take your brokenness, redeem you, and make you new. But for those who are married, God can use your husband, however great or however flawed he is, to help in that sanctification process.
So much planning, so many details, all go into that one special day. The first day of the rest of your life. Oh, so much can go wrong. But will you let it? The truth is, anything can ruin your wedding. We live in a fallen world, and we interact with imperfect people. Think about all the … Continue reading This will RUIN your wedding…if you let it
Anyone who knows my husband knows that he is a man of few words. However, the words he says are so golden, they make you want to stop what you're doing and listen. As a woman with many words, I have learned to listen to him and give him the respect he deserves. But what … Continue reading The power of silence among couples
Preparing for your marriage is vital for success. During engagement, you and your betrothed are laying the foundation for the rest of your marriage. If you get off on the wrong foot, of course, God is still able to help you and heal you. But while you have the tools now, why wait until things get worse … Continue reading Preparing for Marriage
You may be wondering how Lenny feels about me writing about our marriage. Do you really think that I'm venting about my husband without his permission? On this blog, I really don't talk about deep issues in our marriage. I don't believe an online platform is the place to do that. As a matter of … Continue reading Be a Team Player
We newlyweds get this question all the time, especially at holidays: "When are you going to have kids?" This question is particularly challenging because, I've noticed, there isn't a lot of Christian material out there for just Christian wives. I'm reading a book now that talks about being a confident woman, but the author dedicates several chapters … Continue reading Encouragement for Those Who Are Sick of “The Question”